And another thing

Do not tell me how good it is that her suffering ended. There are other ways to end suffering besides dying, and I would much rather one of those. Whether she suffered or not, she is dead, and I miss her.

If you are in a service-oriented profession and dealing with me at a very stressful time in my life, do not piss me off.

I understand that you think I have lost too much weight, but your stating that more than once in a day will not give me weight. You see, I have not yet had time to gain the weight in between mention number one and mention number two. Mere hours have passed.